Boy was I wrong lol.. 19x9.5 +22 and a 20mm spacer, on 255/40/19 tires.
Got it put on today, rubs like crazy. It doesn't rub at all directly above the center of the wheel because my fender was pulled there, so I can turn as fast as I want full lock... but it rubs where the bumper meets the fender. Going down to a 10mm spacer which will make it 19x9.5 +12 instead of +2 and I think my problems will be solved lol. Need to get some new open ended and extended lugs though :/