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Old 01-06-2013, 10:57 PM   #3109 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by kensin0429 View Post
thanks for the inputs and questions .
she would call/text me and tell me she still loves me , still thinks about me. But when I try to say get us back together , she says she doesn't know what she wants right now and the main focus is on her school . Most recent one was on 12-21-12. It was silly , that day morning she ask me what if today the world ends ? I say , I would tell my mom and dad that I love them , and wish to see her for one last time . Then I ask her the same thing , she says ,she would tell me she loves me and see me in the next life . Reason I keep pursuing it is because I get really confused . Think she doesn't want anything to do with me any more but keeps telling these things .


It was more of the act of lying with a little bit about what was lied about .
Yeah, she cares about you, but she's not interested in a relationship take 2 right now, based on that. What would help is you give her space, let her find out what she wants emotionally. She's already told you her Priorities, so the more you press the issue right now, the more negative response you'll get. Focus on healing and being alright with yourself, and if she comes back later on, address it then. But right now the best thing you can do is be happy with yourself.
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