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Originally Posted by onzedge
I am not being funny here -- relationships are tricky and even the best of them can get bumpy sometimes. Open-ness, honesty, clearly stating needs and expectations -- these all go along way in making the relationship what it should be.
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Amazing wisdom from the Onzedge. If you think she is going to be seriously pissed, then it seems to me there may be other things factoring into her reaction (not just the dead flowers).
My wife and I went through a rough patch in our marriage about four months ago. It took a number of breakdowns and arguments to finally sit down and discuss the fact that we were not on the same page. Over a few weeks, we both made serious efforts to get on the same page, which meant significant compromises for both of us. It was an tough but amazing transformation, and I am incredibly proud to say our disagreements since are less intense and nearly always end with us laughing that we were arguing over something so stupid.