My girlfriend and I shoot with a Nikon D700 and D90 both with battery grips.
our lenses:
Nikon 70-200mm f2.8 VR1
Nikon 10.5mm f2.8 DX(crop sensor) fisheye
Nikon 85mm f1.8
Sigma 30mm f1.4
Nikon 16-35mm f4 VR
Nikon 105mm Micro VR (yes.... Micro, not typo lol)
for flash we just carry an SB600 unless we need the studio lights.... needing to buy the Vagabond Mini still.