Originally Posted by nismochiq

No I understand exactly why you are saying all I am talking about is how the media effects our decisions on what is ok and what is not ok. Believe it or not if they didn't have any movies tv shows showing people who were promiscuous and cheating it would be less the case. Alot of those techniques come from the media. Like for instance hiding that you are cheating on someone. You would have never learned if it wasn't for your friends that watched this show that saw this technique worked so you tried it. Mainly in your teenage years this happened you just don't realize how much the media has effected our decisions in life it's like religion. You go to church and pay money for dues so you don't go to hell, but in the matter is that you are just promoting its ok to give the church money for something you will never know will happen or not unless you are dead.

It's an observation now back into topic, Alot of people cheat, alot of people want to get back at the other for cheating so they cheat, it's a continuous cycle and mostly just find a girl that is at your maturity level and everything should be fine treat her good and if she does something try not to carry that into your next relationship. Same thing goes with a girl.