Lance! Sorry to hear that someone tried to jack your Volks. Those Duraluminum lugs that you posted the link to look fine and they do look exactly like the ones you had on your Volks the last time I actually saw them. Where did you get the originals when you had them put on at AAM? I might actually pick up a set them for my Volks.
Also, I'm thinking of investing in this:
http://www.griotsgarage.com/product/...+socket+set.do