Well since #3 is out of the question unless u try to bargain, (even then I don't think that price will go down significantly), you are left with just option 1 and 2, i don't think 1 and 2 are that bad however, I think there is def room for negotiations. If you can get the 2009 for 30k or the 2010 for around 32, Its still not that bad. You should also check the classified here as people sell their used Nismos, here I went ahead and found one, it already sold but it should give you an idea of what price range you should looking for.
2010 Nismo Pearl White MINT this one is actually a better deal then the 2010 you listed, has some mods, and is almost 1/4 the mileage. He was also asking 2,000 less then what you listed. Hope that helps, and good luck.