I never pre-order anymore. The game can wait a week. The incentives to pre-order aren't worth it to me. I also never get "collector's edition" anything. imo it's over-paying.
And I don't wait in long lines, either.
Specifically, I stopped pre-ordering when I fully payed for Gran Turismo 3, and then the game got delayed for over ten months, and if I hadn't kept my tattered receipt, I'd have been out the sixty bucks, because I was out of their system by then. Therefore, screw pre-orders. They can get my money when I feel like it.