I agree with the three previous posts. Even back in high school when guys were 'play fighting' I was very uncomfortable unless it was a good friend.
For me when things get physical, they get serious unless I know you personally and we are both smiling and joking with each other.
When it's a stranger and we're having a disagreement, the second physical contact is made by the other person, things escalate immediately.
It's not always the best way, but everyone has a comfort level, and you should never presume to lay your hands on another person you don't know VERY well.
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